James “Jay” Hiram Weaver, Jr.
August 29, 1959 - February 20, 2021
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Hudson Funeral Home
211 S. Miami Blvd
Durham, NC 27703
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Thursday 2/25, 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Service
Gorman Baptist Church
3315 E Geer Street
Durham, NC 27704
Friday 2/26, 12:00 pm
Cemetery
Oak Grove Memorial Gardens
3712 Cheek Road
Durham, NC 27704
Friday 2/26

DURHAM- Mr. James “Jay” Hiram Weaver, Jr., 61, passed away on Saturday, February 20, 2021 at Duke University Hospital. Mr. Weaver was born on August 29, 1959 to James and Elizabeth Weaver in Durham, NC. Jay loved his country and proudly served in the United States Navy as a Hospital Corpsman. Jay retired from Durham…

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Robin Mullins left a message on February 26, 2021:
I love you Jay...
Nina Walker left a message on February 26, 2021:
I am loss for words and to be honest I am still in disbelief I met mr. Jay when he started working in SAU I was so tickled to myself I said finally I get to work with Santa Claus and he just laughed and said yeah that's what everyone calls me and he didn't mind 1 bit!!! I can truly say that I admired when he spoke about you and his family also his church family the love that was in his eyes came shining through for you all I am so sorry for your loss I will miss his advice and seeing him everyday his family was truly a blessing to him hopefully soon maybe I will get to meet you please take care and I'm sending you our thoughts and prayers
Nina Walker left a message on February 26, 2021:
I am lost for words. Mrs. Lisa meet mr. Jay when he started in
Augustus Collier left a message on February 25, 2021:
My heart is heavy, and I will always remember Sergeant J. Weaver as a friend and a brother with a kind heart. He would always help me and advise me when I needed it the most. May God Bless you, Lisa, we are praying that God strengthen you and the family. I will always miss my buddy my co-worker and my brother JAY WEAVER.
Jean Elizabeth Willis left a message on February 25, 2021:
So sorry for your loss. The Weavers loss a great man. You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry I can't be there. Mom is sending her prayers as well...
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Kim Hudson Foreman left a message on February 25, 2021:
My sincere condolences to all Jay's family. He will truly be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him through friendship, school, church and work. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of grief.
Shirley Ann Quinn left a message on February 24, 2021:
Gracyn my love,I saw the memories with your POP POP . Im so sorry I didnt get to meet him ..However I feel a kinship with him seeing how he LOVED you .IM so sorry for your Familys loss
Angela Matt left a message on February 24, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God's love cover you in peace, comfort and strength. Love you.
Sgt.T.Evans left a message on February 23, 2021:
Remembering all our lunch dates with you,him and Monkey and stories you would tell about Jay . Some days he would make me so mad I'll tell him I was going to call you. He went out his way to play Santa 🎅 for my granddaughter he was a loving and ❤ caring person. So sorry for your loss.
Cathy Hogan Falzone left a message on February 23, 2021:
Rest In Peace to one of the nicest guys I’ve known. Fellowship Christian School was a better place because of you. Prayers and surrounding peace to the family in the days ahead. In sympathy, Cathy Hogan Falzone
Terry M. McGhee left a message on February 22, 2021:
Lisa, I just found out about your loss. I am so sorry, I really enjoyed knowing Jay and working with him. I can still remember going to lunch at the Northgate food court when we worked together at the jail, we had some great times together. I wanted to let you know how sorry I am, I am not going to any gatherings right now because of COVID, that and I don't do funerals well. If there is anything I can do for you or you just want to talk I am still at Home Depot on N. Pointe Dr. Again, I am so sorry. Terry McGhee
Tom Boles left a message on February 22, 2021:
I had the privilege of working with Jay Weaver for many years in Durham co. jail and what a positive impact he had on the facility. Jay enjoyed people and helping others. His infectious gruff demeanor was like no other. He will be greatly missed. What a stable force for so many. From my conversations with Weaver there is no doubt that he lived life. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this extremely difficult time.
Sonya Bullock left a message on February 22, 2021:
Mr. Weaver was an amazing man and good friend. He will truly be missed.
barbara davis left a message on February 22, 2021:
Love and prayers
Leigh Anne Petty left a message on February 22, 2021:
Keeping the family in my prayers, may the Lord comfort you all.
Frank Shelton left a message on February 22, 2021:
Love you NANA. May the Lord strengthen your spirit, your heart, and the rest of us your resolve. We love you so very much.
Betty Jean king left a message on February 22, 2021:
Lisa you know how much I Love you all and miss the sweet man GOD be with you all
Lucy Murray Bradshaw left a message on February 21, 2021:
I was saddened to hear of Jay's passing. May God be with his family as they go through this difficult time - you are all in my prayers. God Bless!
Kathy White left a message on February 21, 2021:
So sorry for your loss. Jay will be greatly missed.
Deborah Cotton left a message on February 21, 2021:
I am sad to hear you have left this world. We went to church at fellowship with pastor Lonnie Graves years ago and then got reacquainted when John was a part of my life. Heaven got them an angel. RIP my friend. Prayers and strength for the family.
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Ann Riddle left a message on February 21, 2021:
Prayers are with you and your family as they find comfort in the good memories made during your time on earth. I know you will be missed.
Lisa Ritch Bond left a message on February 21, 2021:
Jay was a longtime friend and one of the kindest people I know. He will be truly missed by myself and many others. My deepest condolences to Lisa and his family.
Karen Sue Foster left a message on February 21, 2021:
May God bless Jay's wife and family with peace and comfort. He will be greatly missed.
Kim Cagney left a message on February 21, 2021:
Mrs. Lisa, I am so sorry for the loss of Mr. Jay! We have prayed for his miracle but God saw fit for his miracle to take place in Heaven! We will miss him so much but know that he is in Heaven with our Lord and Savior! We will see him again one day! Lifting up more prayers for you in the days to come and for Gracyn and the rest of the family! We love you! The Cagney Family
Lolita Gauldin left a message on February 21, 2021:
Lisa & family I'm so sorry for your loss. You all in my thoughts an prayers.. I love you all
George Brothers left a message on February 21, 2021:
Prayers for the family at this time. Jay you were a great friend and will be surely be missed. Till we meet again.
Wanda &Clyde Carden left a message on February 21, 2021:
In memory of James “Jay” Hiram Weaver, Jr., Wanda &Clyde Carden lit a candle
Benita Daye Baines left a message on February 21, 2021:
In memory of James “Jay” Hiram Weaver, Jr., Benita Daye Baines lit a candle
Cindi left a message on February 20, 2021:
So sorry for your loss. I went to school with Jay and stood a flagline with him in the Patriot Guard. He will be missed.
Cindy Riley Casey left a message on February 20, 2021:
Melissa, I am so sorry for your loss! May God comfort and bless you and your family today and in the days to come. You will be in my prayers.
Cindy Riley Casey left a message on February 20, 2021:
Melissa, I am so sorry for your loss! May God comfort and bless you and your family today and in the days to come. You will be in my prayers.
Wanda Gordon left a message on February 20, 2021:
Lisa, we are so sorry to hear of Jay’s passing. You and the family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Norman & Wanda Gordon
Hudson Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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